Comments on: Meeting Strangers: How to Prepare for an Effective Cold Meeting

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Maid Service In Jacksonville — Sun, 20 Jun 2010 20:04:49 +0000

Thanks for putting together this blog/post/article. I have to say that you have a lot of good information here. Most valuable in doing something that many people feel very awkward doing.

I think one of the best pieces of information is doing research ahead of time on the person you are going to meet (and/or the company). People love it when you know something about them (as long as you don’t come across as a stalker “So, your Ms. Sara J. Roberts of 1234 Main St? I have been wanting to meet you!”)
Thanks for an informative article.

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The Definitive Guide to LinkedIn Recomendations | Wordplay with Vinay — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 04:15:03 +0000

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By: Vinay

Vinay — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 19:02:29 +0000

I agree. The preparation is important, but unless you actually deliver in the moment, its not going to do you much good.

By: Matt Hartley

Matt Hartley — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 06:26:29 +0000

An interesting post I think the most important aspect of any meeting to make a great impression is to be in the moment, this is done by being mentally prepared for the situation. I find that mentally rehearsing potential responses to generic questions builds confidence. 93% of communication is non-verbal (body language and tonality) so paying attention to these details can make a big difference.

By: Vinay

Vinay — Sat, 06 Feb 2010 08:23:21 +0000

Haha I didnt even notice that!

Ive had plenty of tongue twisted moments. I find having scripted things to say can help you in those circumstances.

Try “Thanks for meeting me” – that line can be used as an opening line in EVERY meeting EVER.

You dont need to be clever and remember if its before or after 12pm

By: Rawhider

Rawhider — Sat, 06 Feb 2010 05:17:23 +0000

It would definetely feel weird shaking that guy’s hand. He only has 3 fingers. I hate interviews. I even more hate it when you walk into a meeting room and there’s 4 people looking at you. This is about the time that I say something stupid like “Good Luck” instead of “Good Afternoon” lol

By: Vinay

Vinay — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 14:16:03 +0000

Thanks for the comment Walter.

This post is an afterthought of many, many meetings and interviews. I used to get very nervous, but after picking the brains of the experienced and breaking down the process I became more comfortable. I find having a plan removed a good portion of the nerves.

What kind of meetings make you nervous the most?

By: Walter

Walter — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 00:52:41 +0000

This is a savvy approach in meeting strangers. I have always been awkward with it comes to this. Thank you for providing some tips here. Next time I know what to do.